For some reason, I get offended when I’m constantly tested.
Maybe it’s my ego or maybe it’s a reaction of my emotions. But, do I have to be emotionless to get someone’s respect? I finally understand a woman’s frustration. No matter how we look or act, someone is always searching, searching for a problem or something to doubt.
Don’t mistake my niceness for weakness. Don’t take my calmness as nonchalance. Do not insult my intelligence. As a woman, we know what you’re thinking before you open your mouth. We know your intentions. On a good day, we can sense everything that you are dealing with in your life.
I may have my highs and lows, but at my best it’s pure bliss. At my worst, I’m polishing myself for bliss. It’s a man’s world only because our true image has been slaughtered. Instead of queens, we’re “hoes.” Instead of wives, we’re “baby mamas.” Instead of friends, we’re “acquaintances.”
What happened to the heavenly mother? What happened to our unity?
I see these images of women in the media now. What a disappointment. So it’s not surprising that I’m tested for lack. I’m just disappointed that I have to go out of my way to prove myself worthy. This gets old very fast, which then turns us cold.
We’re held back when we have to work twice as hard to earn respect. You want sass to catch your attention, but then class to take it all seriously. We’re taught that having emotions is a problem when that’s actually our greatest gift!
Our gift is to sense a problem while it’s forming and work to solve it before it matures.
The gift of intuition gets clouded when we are not respected or taken seriously. Our timing gets thrown off and we lash out to protect ourselves. The only lack that exists is open communication. This is not a game to us. It is the truth. Women and men are equal and we should be treated equal. We are all on an individual journey to happiness and success…