Girls younger and younger have been objectified and sexualized in media; just last month, W Magazine stated that Millie Bobby Brown, the talented 13-year old actress from Stranger Things, is making television “sexier than ever.” These types of comments aren’t new, with Mara Wilson writing a piece about her similar experience while filming the 1996 Matilda, but this trend is seen across Hollywood, in the modeling industry, and in the sexist dress codes that we enforce on middle school girls.
If you ask a group of young men how they avoid getting sexually assaulted, many will tell you “Don’t go to prison.” If you ask a group of young women, they’ll be able to rattle off a list of safety tips that we’ve been drilled on since elementary school from how to wear our hair to when we’re allowed to walk the streets. While 1 in 6 men do experience sexual abuse in their lifetime, prison sexual assault is a serious issue, and many of the survivors who have recently come forward are men, historically women have been given the burden of “gatekeeper” in the prevention of sexual assault. This has lead to a laundry list of victim-blaming attitudes around who's responsible for preventing a sexual assault that ultimately harms the survivors. The only person responsible for a sexual assault is the perpetrator-period. It does not matter what you’re wearing, what time you’re walking home, or if you were drinking; sexual assault is never the victim’s fault.
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